Hey- anyone been in the position where their seeing someone, but you’re not dating ? I’m seeing someone and he went on vacation without me and I’m sure he met some girls - he even admitted it but said

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Leave him and Find a real adult. Today’s dating culture makes it feel like those kinds of relationships are normal, but they aren’t! When I met my boyfriend and he didn’t play games and was genuine, I was almost taken aback and wondered if something was wrong with him. Turns out I was too used to guys like the one you are dating. You’ll be happier in the long run, I promise! :)

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Same. Met my husband and was taken aback he his real authenticity

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Girlllll - tell that boy bye - you don’t need that stress in your life. Been there, done that, said good riddance. No one has time for games - all these dudes (and dudettes) not looking for anything serious, more power to them. But if that’s not your m.o. - let it go. Your sanity will thank you in the long run.

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These aren’t men, these are sad little boys that mess with out emotions. Sometimes I hate how emotional we women can be :/
Where are all the real men at 👋

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Unless you’ve both agreed to be in a monogamous relationship where you are no longer seeing other people then you should back down. I don’t want to call you crazy because it’s a normal behavior, but it doesn’t make it the correct behavior.

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Then you have a right to be upset if he isn’t honoring your agreement

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Haha leave his ass...find someone that wants you. He’s just stringing you a long. Trust me you’ll be better for it

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Sounds like an insecure little bitchboy. On to the next 👋🏻

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Boys are like buses, the next one will come along.

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Be with someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. End of story.

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Preach Deloitte 1 preach !! Completely agree. You should want to be with a man ... not a boy - who’s concerned about what he posts to FB. Just saying

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Yeah y’all just fwb

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Sounds like you want more that he’s willing to give you right now. If so, move on.

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Than* he’s willing

As other people have said, he technically hasn’t done anything wrong. If it’s really bothering you (which based on your post it sounds like it is), you need to have an honest discussion with him to either be exclusive or move on before someone gets hurt

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I’m sorta in the same boat. We have not discussed, but I think this thread makes it more clear. That it’s time to move on.

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It’s hard I’m not sure why we women often fall for these idiots

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Drop this dude!!! You deserve better

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- nothing happened . But he was MIA for 3 days . Barely messaged me and said he didn’t have WiFi. But he was acting weird after his first night there.
He won’t post any pictures of us on social media and said that im overly jealous and acting crazy since we’re “just friends”
Am I right , or am I really acting crazy?
😭😭😭😭😭😭

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and he also posted a ton of pictures with other friends before, both males and females 😒

He is blowing up my phone asking me to “calm down” saying how he doesn’t want to lose this friendship but yet doesn’t see how much everything he did hurts.
He posted a picture of us on his Instagram story and deleted it an hour later
So Ofcourse I’m thinking there’s probably another woman
I will be letting it go though

Keyword: friendship

Yeah all he wanted was a fwb

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I totally agree !
Thank you guys!
It’s sad because is he 30 years old .... I expected him to be more mature at 30 🤦🏼‍♀️
Dealing with him has been like dealing with a teenager

The normal ones are out there. Maybe you guys are attracted to the jerky ones?

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So at any point did he indicate he wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with you?

Nope. The dynamics of a relationship are discussed and agreed to by BOTH people, not dictated by one. If he wants to discuss and come to a consensus, that's great. Dictating, hell no!

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Does he know how you feel about this? I mean since you are not really dating....

I agree too! It’s Just an excuse at the end of the day.....

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