About to have my first kid in November. Need some tips….
how much paternity leave to take? what should I be doing to get ready? Anything I should know about in the first couple months?

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As much as they’ll offer.

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I made a hard and fast line when I joined consulting. I would take as much time as I needed for my kids even if it affected my career. 3 years in and it has no effect on my career whatsoever. Take as much time as you can.

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Take as much as you can — what is offered and even consider an unpaid leave of absence. This time is so special. You partner will need support, it will be a big transition for both of you, and having time to focus on family will do you well in the long term.

You only get to experience your kid grow up once. There will always be more work.

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Paternity leave - take as much as you’re allowed but think about staggering it if possible. For example, you may need less early on if you have family support and can save it for later when you have less support/wife may need to go back to work.

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