Advice please. Been talking (text, phone calls, FaceTime) to a guy for almost 3 months.He’s in NYC and we met on an app. He’s coming down to see me (and I guess his family since they live here) soon. When I asked him what we’re going to do on our first date, he said hang out, grab coffee, maybe walk a trail. Idk why but I feel a bit disappointed. Obvi it is our first official date but we’ve been talking everyday for a while now. Is his idea too casual? I was hoping it would be more special..

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He may feel that if he did something more “romantic” or bigger, you may feel it’s too soon. I think a chill first date where you focus less on expensive food/restaurants and more on hanging out and getting to know each other is better.

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That's my go to first date tbh!

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Also keep in mind it's cold in NY haha. He probably just wants to enjoy the warmer weather now in Dallas

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