Any tips for someone entering the process? How do I pick a lawyer? Do I try to agree with spouse on terms before finding lawyer? Have material assets accumulated during marriage.

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I'm just starting the process... I think having a lawyer consult with you is valuable and worth your time and money. You may end up not going to court but getting their insight on your rights, gotchas to look out for etc. Just be open minded and not vindictive. As you might just be paying your lawyers many thousands just to get a few hundred more (metaphorically) from your soon to be ex spouse.

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I would try to get a mediator before a lawyer... if it’s amicable. Cheaper

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