Anyone knows how alimony works ? In terms of salary ? How much more than your partner do you need to make, to be granted alimony… I’m asking because I have seen cases where one person sacrifices themselves studying and working hard, while the other person is basically doing the bare min, and they can get alimony if they separate ? In some cases, for life.

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You can google this. It varies state by state. In my case I paid…quite a bit. But only for a couple years. Under 10 year marriage I think the risk of “indefinite” is low

My ex also didn’t sacrifice for me. Didn’t quit their job or anything. But did work much less while I toiled. Sucks but that’s how it is

So they got half of your savings even though you worked harder and toiled harder to earn more

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