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Any one has experience in divorcing with custody fight? Any tips can share?

Folks, Have been married for 15 years and have a kid of 11 years. My spouse is falsely accusing me of domestic abuse and trying to get separated. We have had incompatibility even before marriage on va… more

I have 1 one year old and have told my husband that I want to get divorced. He is being immature about the process and is just trying to make everything difficult. Sometimes he says he will move out, … more

Angry and I want divorce so badly but I can’t do it. I feel a lot of guilt and I still love her so much. Unfortunately, I see many things changed in her behaviors and she becomes more aggressive and w… more


any recommendations for divorce attorney in Chicago/ Naperville/western suburbs?

How do I know if I am ready for a divorce?


Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’… more


Could someone suggest a really good attorney for a contested divorce case in SF Bay Area ? Thanks

Only divorce services for uncontested and amicable divorces

How are you’ll doing? Has life gotten better …I am still trying to adjust

Divorce lawyers in Boston / Worcester?

Hi all, looking for recommendations for a divorce lawyer in Houston area. Any recommendations would be helpful.


Sadly this is where I ended up (going through divorce with 6mo infant). Abusive spouse wants shared custody when he doesn’t know a thing about taking care of an infant.. any advice would help re custo… more

Stupid question but getting a divorce now and having a hard time figuring out what to do with sentimental things such as wedding pictures, travel pics, ornaments we bought together, etc. What did you … more

Has anyone here completed their divorce without lawyers? It’s amicable between both of us and we are agreeing of the separation of assets. Do I still need to get a lawyer or can I do this on my own?

Anyone co-parenting in different states? Looking for insight on visitation, general feelings, and how the child/children are doing. Thank you!

Sister going through divorce with verbally abusive spouse, just received temporary judgement for custody of two year old and was awarded joint custody (she was anticipating she’d get sole custody). It… more

Wife got lawyer, and I am interviewing lawyers starting tomorrow. I am primary breadwinner (95%), but she is citing at-fault divorce. I have been having substance abuse issues and anger issues (no phy… more

Thinking about divorce. Wife had an affair 3 years ago that I haven’t been able to move past. Been married 11 years and have two kids though. Restarting individual and couples therapy before I pull th… more


I live in VA, been married for 6 years and have no kids. My spouse and I are just separated and about to get divorced in a month. My spouse left their job a year after we married due to which, I need.

How is everybody doing with the lockdown? Dealing with the stress of an ongoing divorce and loneliness is driving me nuts


Has anyone watched Marriage Story?


Married almost 23 years and now separated but still living together (though on the road 3/4/5). Both kids are grown. I know whether we reconcile or split, we’ll be ok. Need to figure out next steps

Divorce or not? Loveless marriage, but love our 2 children and enjoying being close to them. Seeing my brother struggle with joint custody and think this is not for me. Too lazy/busy to rock the boat.

Has anyone experienced your spouse/ex turning your kids against you? My toddler son is aggressive towards me and uses words not normal for toddler vocabulary. MIL also adding fuel to the fire.

Any tips for someone entering the process? How do I pick a lawyer? Do I try to agree with spouse on terms before finding lawyer? Have material assets accumulated during marriage.

Wife has domestic charges and now wants me to leave the home? Have a new project starting up soon. Wife wants to mediate separation agreement soon until her criminal case is resolved. Advice?

Going through a divorce and looking for advice. My wife called my employer and filed an allegation that I took client confidential documents out of my firm. I have had talent calls....

What is the best advice wrt financial settlement ? I was told to simply get a move on and not fight over 5/10k but get on with life ASAP. Do u relate ?

Looking to move on, M 35 in NY if any F interested in hanging out DM me


How’s everyone doing? Any struggle this week?

What was the most surprising thing you have learned throughout the process of your divorce?

Currently going through a divorce, been separated for 16 months without my 3 yo daughter. Wife resides in foreign country. I am here to offer help as I understand the legal framework better now


As a divorcee with a kid, i find it extremely hard to find friends who can relate, or even making friends as it seems there’s a stigma attached to you because your relationship didn’t work out.

If I don’t have kids but I’m divorced. Can I still be part of this bowl?


Hopefully this bowl thrives, I could use the perspective. Going through a divorce with two kids now.


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