Any young male professionals looking for sport/drinking buds? semi-new to the city

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

0 posts! What happened?
Did all single people here pair up and get married?

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

Me on a date

Her: So what do you do?

Me: I’m a freelance writer

Her: (crickets)

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

Hi anyone up for casual chit chat?

With hot girl summer upon us I have rejoined Hinge and am ready to mingle. Curious to hear thoughts on if you would (or would not) go out with a new person you met off the internet based upon their vaccination status?

Dating a coworker? Bad idea? Really like her..

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

Which is better. Dating apps or meeting someone in person?

I’m really struggling with figuring out my sexuality and dating as I enter the next phase of my life (into my first job). Not out Bisexual male - uncertain about dating. I want to try going out with girls but scared that they would think about my sexual history(got with guys and girls before). Anyone in a similar boat?

When you can't focus on work because you have a Friday date with that girl and she's occupying your mind... 😅

Any recommendations for a day date dress watch under 5K? Going to be my daily beater.

3rd week on the job, a guy 2 levels below me came into my office and started the conversation with "let me lend you a piece of advice...". As expected, it was not useful advice, he was just a douche.

So, how does a first timer go about getting involved in dating apps? How do I start and what’s a good one to use? Last time I dated, only Match existed!! 🙄 (long story, I’m not that old)

30 M in nyc, down for drinks or dinner during the week?

Hi, I am a single-parent with a 9 year old daughter. Is anyone else dealing with same gender sleepovers with sexual exploration occurring? Exploring as in my daughter says outright “I am going to kiss you,” to her bestie before bed. Then after 15 minutes of giggling in bed I go to tell them to be quiet and see my daughter’s bestie is showing her buttcheeks to my daughter. To top it off they start trying to tell me they are laughing because they are reading “belly laugh books for kids”. Help.

How is your dating life? Are you open and crazy about it?

On a scale of 1 - 10, what would you rate me as a potential dating prospect?

Age: 40
Gender: male
Occupation: lawyer
Height: 5'11
Weight: 185 lbs
Physique: muscular (benchpress in high 200s)
Salary: 450K
Real Estate: 2M
Smoking: never
Drinking: on occasion
Drugs: none
Other interests: traveling, cooking, smooth jazz, alternative rock, krav maga, and long walks through downtown

Looking for opportunity
YOE 15
Skill :
_enterprises data management
_data migration
_project management
_salesforce
_team handle
_shell scripting
_SQL
_CRM
_Sible
_ETL

Industry experience_
Telecom
Banking and finance
Consumer goods

Hello Folks,
Can you pls advise on which company to go for.
R-Systems : They are providing WFH + clarity on the project and team for which I’ll be working upon.
CTS : No clarity as of now, only thing I am aware is that I’m a part of full stack community.
HCL : Some clarity on the project but less package than other two.
R-Systems and CTS are giving same CTC.
YOE ~8
Skill set : . Net full stack + Angular + Azure

Thanks

Just wrapped up internship. How long do they take to get back to us with FT offers? Who will reach out? How will they do it?

Any good course on Udemy for Learning AWS Services for a Developer.

I saw some good courses for getting an AWS Developer Associate certificate certificate.
Do these courses explain concepts or explain the question to answer?

I mainly focused on learning AWS Services for working on AWS Services.

The new junior on my team is from the South and refers to me as “Sir” and it’s making me feel all kinds of ways. How to proceed from here?

My friend and I (both Asian and gay) were seating at the cafe on the 2nd floor of Saks Fifth Ave today waiting for our table for the restaurant on the 9th floor. A lady came and asked where are we from, and “why are you two men in this mall? This is for female only”. I said this mall sells products for all genders. She said she has walked all floors and never saw a thing for men. Then she threw curse at me. I stood up and asked her to repeat what she said. She pulled her phone and called 911

Hi Fishes, Can someone please refer me for lead Analyst position in Wells Fargo, Bengaluru location. I have 8+ years of experience with SAS and SQL as primary skills and need to relocate to Bengaluru. Thanks in advance.

How long can you go without having anything to do before you get laid off?

Can anyone recommend appropriate user tracking and sentiment / feedback gathering solutions for bespoke internal tools?

E.g to see user behaviour on an internal operational tool used by 100s of staff.

Currently last year student looking for consulting jobs / jobs in technology. Applying at Deloitte, Accenture, EY, Cisco. What would you guys recommend? Got even some interviews with start/scale ups. Wanne hear your thoughts 🙌

Hello all,

I went ahead and purchased a house with a loan principal amount of 500k couple months ago. Interest rate is at 4.875%. As a first time home owner, I didnt really think about the interest rate as I was trying to weigh the cost of renting vs mortgaging. so, I was mentally sold on the idea of purchasing the house. However, as I have started my payments, I feel bogged down with the fact that I will be paying so much interest initially. While my income is 161k (single income), continued..

Looking to support a new APIA founded startup? Well look no further!

Have you ever found something online and thought "... if I buy this, what about my anniversary gift, that trip to Europe, the car I always wanted..."

Well I have and founded Okane (money in Japanese 🤑)

Okane is a free Chrome Extension that focuses on goal-based budgeting. We track your wealth and help you save for your future goals while avoiding impulse purchases, right as you shop online. ( okane.crd.co)

Lmk what you think!!

Does anyone know if Visa’s 401k plan allows for a mega backdoor roth?

Has recession started??

A few weeks of traveling and I find myself exhausted. Any tips for getting use to the hectic consultant schedule?

What value do TPMs provide? In my company all they seem to do is tell other people to work on things they’re already working on, and incessantly nag people on slack for status updates and timelines which you’ve already provided.

Would love ideas for meeting people outdoors. Looking to connect with locals, as long as it does not involve eating indoors. 😂 This area was so good for connecting a variety of backgrounds coming together from all over. Ideas?

Best & worst company you’ve worked for in the area? I’ll go first

Best - NCSECU; pay was mediocre but stress free. Highly dependent on your branch if you have a good team

Worst - REVGEN; These people and their business model are despicable

Best breakfast spots in Raleigh?

Did anyone make it to the state fair? What did you think? I heard the last day is tomorrow. Is it worth it? I'm new to the area.

Are there any Graphic Designers here? Looking to make some designer friends/network/chat? Moved from NYC last year. My last role ended in September so i'm currently unemployed, applying to jobs. Hoping to get something before the little unemployment I receive runs out. :/

I see there’s been lots of activity here. :)
Anyone up for getting this group off the ground?

If anyone needs the triangle area needs their gifts wrapped Im happy to wrap them for you. I’ve had success using libraries as a neutral spot if that’s easier. Regarding price, I’m flexible feel free to message me.

What do people do in Raleigh area for fun? I moved from NYC and I'll be the first to admit I find it a little slow here.

What is the average salary of a finance manager in the Raleigh Durham area

Anyone going out tonight?

What sites do you use to find tech companies hiring or based around here (besides LinkedIn, I deed, and the RTP site)?

Hi is anyone free for a weekly remote 3 hours daily job as a listing agent for rental property? Experienced or not we have salary based for both experienced and none experienced persons . From 550 weekly. Send a DM if interested for more details.

🌟 Things to Do Thursday 🌟
What's happening in Raleigh? Use this thread to share events, concerts, holiday markets, or anything else that's going on in the area this weekend!

Welcome! Wanted to create a place for triangle-specific whining/musing/connections.

What are your favorite coffee shops to work remotely from? Open to any neighborhood—I like trying new places.

Anyone new to this area and interested to meet up over the next few weeks? I moved here from Boston in March and would like to make some friends

Moved to Raleigh during COVID and have been working remotely since. Looking for local Audit manager/internal audit manager/risk management type of roles, anyone knows any companies are hiring?

Are there any restaurants offering a take-home Christmas dinner? Like they make the food and you just heat it up when you bring it home?