Anyone here have a rough upbringing? Curious if you would like to share your story and how you got here today. Anything you do to still stay connected to your communities?

I was listening to Jesus Lord on Kanye's new album and I had flashbacks. I grew up in the hood and had a highly impoverished and violent upbringing. Joining a gang was like joining the army and it was a rite of passage for a lot of folks. Thankfully I got out unscathed, but friends and family weren't as fortunate.

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Same, but in the UK, so knives instead of guns. Knew a handful of people that were killed, knew of significantly more I wasn’t personally acquainted with, was a part of very violent situations and extremely illegal stuff. I was finally arrested for armed robbery as a teenager, pled it down to 1 count of (non-armed) robbery. At around the same time, I’d gotten into some stuff with a guy who’s family was “big” and the level of drama that ensued convinced me I wasn’t a gangster. “Exited” gangland to college, moved countries after a couple of years, took the first job I could get (hourly production operator lol) and then got promoted at breakneck speeds before coming to consulting. It’s been a wild ride.

Edit to add: Guns were still involved, but at much less frequency. At the time, they weren’t used for petty situations (that was knives) and only pulled out for “legitimate” beefs. The risk = reward just wasn’t there to carry a gun to a fight over something that didn’t involve a decent chunk of money. It seems like thats changed in the last 15-20 years.

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It was more of a downbringing for me. I have no idea how I'm still alive, never mind have a professional job.

There is that famous poem from that old Deep Cover movie with Laurence Fishburne

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Depends what you mean by ‘rough upbringing’? Did I grow up in a poor neighborhood? No. But I grew up with an abusive, alcoholic step father that tried to kill me on numerous occasions. And I was running with a bad crowd by the time I graduated. The guidance counselor said I would never amount to anything and would be dead in a ditch by the time I was 22.
Jokes on her: I am still here asshole and make more money a year then she did in five years.

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