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I've done long distance (SF/LA) for a year. Would fly out Monday AM, then back either Thurs night or sometimes Friday afternoon.
Professionally, I soared. Personally, my relationship suffered.
You miss the little moments that make up a relationship. You get used to being apart in the evenings, which can be a dangerous place for a relationship. Both of you are unhappy the night before you leave because you know what's coming.
Fortunately, after a year, Covid happened and I've been primarily WFH since, so no need to deal with that situation anymore.
I wouldn't personally recommend it. But I do know a couple who's done NYC/Luxembourg for 10+ years, and they've made it work, so YMMV.
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Can she not work for a bit while she looks for a new job?
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this isnt law advice, but i think this outlook on her part does not bode well for you unless you are wiling to change your job as well to accomodate
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Magic 8 ball says this is a bad idea and you should stay put
Cont. will likely downsize the home we have in this market and I’ll rent a small apartment while renting the larger place in the new market. Anyone else done or doing something similar? Tried finding a job in the other market but most firms there don’t pay market in my practice so they did not believe me when I said I would be ok with a pay cut. Would likely fly to live in the new market for 2 weeks, then back to the original market for 2 weeks and so on.
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A2, so provide it if you have any and otherwise don’t