Being a single female in 30s these days is beyond frustrating. I just had one of my close friends try to indulge me in a threesome relationship in her marriage and I find it hard to imagine how she ever thought I would be remotely interested in the idea. She later apologized saying her hubby pressured her into asking me but I cant see how I can keep things normal with her going forward. Am I overreacting?

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Is the husband hot at least?

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No, you’re not overreacting! Wtf. I’m assuming you’ve been friends with this person well before her husband came along?

Also, he sounds like a super slimy husband she should break up with if she is being honest with you.

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3-somes are quite common these days. I would be flattered by the invitation. I know I have been, both when I participated (don’t knock it till you try it!), and when I have declined.

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Why do you think it’s such a big issue? She asked, you said no, everyone moves on. Seems your value judgment of “how wrong” and “how ridiculous” it is and how “righteous you” is beyond this is coloring your judgment. Think about it.

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Na, I think that’s a pretty normal “WTF?” Situation and your feelings are justified

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Your best friend needs a new husband unless she’s using his as a scapegoat

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No you are not - always stay your ground no matter how right things seem. Gut feel is 99% right. Good luck.

Good luck to their marriage lmao

You’re justified in feeling this way

3’sones are very common today! “Normal” isn’t “normal” anymore In today’s society. Something’s may seem strange but they actually aren’t. Today’s world calls for a much more open mind. Don’t Jussie unless you’ve tried. You’d be surprised on the overall results if you open your mind and start looking at things with new an diffrent perspectives that the “traditional” one… just saying…

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