Does anyone not get drained by this job? After hours at the computer I’m drained every time, and I can’t tell if it’s just normal/part of the job or a fit issue

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This job is absolutely draining. I think the people who aren’t exhausted by it are just built different. I envy them.

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I am currently drained. I was yesterday, too. And all the days before that.

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I found exercising every day really helped. It boosted my mood and also built stamina to work long hours without becoming exhausted. Start slowly (20 mins a day) and build up gradually.

Planning things to look forward to, like weekend trips or concerts, also helped.

Just in case, have your PCP run a broad panel of blood tests. And be screened for a sleep issue or depression.

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Love this answer totally agree with everything. It’s magical what an impact exercise can have on your mood and overall wellbeing.

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Walk around while you’re thinking. Neurology studies sho it helps your focus and cognition. That’s how I constructed examinations for 30 years.

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I think the type of work also helps. I’m usually not drained, maybe just tired from all-nighters, but still interested and motivated 6 years in. But I got a case from another practice group who needed extra help, and I have never felt so drained. All of the sudden, I understood those people who insist this is the worst job. Then that case ended and I’m back to my regular work and can breathe easy again.

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Maybe that’s why I am so drained all the time. Only ever done employment litigation and I find this job so taxing it is unbelievable

I have an 8 lb dumbbell under my desk for reps here and there when I can squeeze them in. The sitting at a desk all day, hardly any movement, just drains me

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Depends on the day. If I get to structure it, have nice interactions with colleagues and clients and get my five to six hours of sleep it generally works. If I have an absolutely hectic day, need to stay up after midnight for a couple of days or have a day with lunches, in person pitches, and dinners combined, I am essentially dead at the end of the week.

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yes, definitely one of those “convenient genes” kind of thing

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