Dreading return to BL after extended leave…how long after reintegration did you feel “normal” again?

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Parental leave, medical leave, or some other reason? If parental, it'll take some time to reintegrate - mostly because you are finding your new equilibrium of what's "normal" and learning how to juggle multiple competing demands to find what works for you. I can't speak to other types of leave, but it took me a good 3-4 months to feel readjusted when I came back from mat leave with our first.

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