Feeling down! I match with so many people and make ton of effort to talk and respond on time. But no one wants to meet (for a date or drink or tennis or coffee). Everyone has some or the other excuse or keep pushing the date/day. I am like you didn’t even give me a chance to show you my personality and how good of a person I am 😔

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Nobody wants to compromise anymore. It’s the sad reality. The apps are littered with people with good intentions that are not willing to meet the less than perfect match.

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^this. I found that life to not be gratifying anymore and gave that up a couple years ago. The loneliness hurts night after night. Plenty of guys who are open to have sex with, and plenty of married couples who want me as a third. But no one wants me as their own.

Keep trying you seem like a nice person… you will find mr right but keep enjoying mr right now

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Pretty much the same for me 🤞🏻

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I think the issue is dating apps, not you. Can you try to meet people in person?

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Lead with looks and weave in personality later. The reality is people pay attention to looks before they get interested in personality.

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Looks already got me the match. May be I need to improve my banter game to get to the dates

Felt the same way. Deleted all the dating apps going to give myself a month and then start back up again. Sometimes taking a break and focusing on other things is good idea.

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This is a good idea, do a total reset!

Same. And I’m based in sf so feel like if I can’t find anyone here then I’m hopeless lol

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I like my chubbies …

Same for me in nyc

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