Finding it a slog to bill even seven hours a day. Few months ago lateraled from a firm with a high stress and toxic environment to a much more civilized place. Enjoyed a honeymoon period but now feel bored and disaffected in a way I never felt at my old firm. Was the drama artificially keeping me going? Help

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Yeah I lateraled to somewhere where I am way less micromanaged and also in a free market system.

I was stressed out for a bit until I figured out I was supposed to take initiative to get staffed and also figure out what needs to be done on a deal and just do It instead of waiting for an insane partner to call me to discuss my daily “punch list” and “action items”.

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Kind of the opposite experience. I went from a free-for-all sink-or-swim place to a place with a central staffer, regular check in calls and fair allocation of responsibilities. Want to die of boredom. Stupid to complain, I know

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You sound like someone who doesn’t like whatever you’re doing. Not trying to be offensive, but some folks (myself included) just default to being discontent.

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