When your seniors aren’t motivated and pulling their weight, it shows and demotivates you. It’s a domino effect. How do you handle these situations? The senior pushes every single thing down and it’s clear to everyone this person could care less. Makes me not care and not want to do anything either…

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Weasel your way toward the good ones as much as possible and endeavor to become unavailable to the bad ones.

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We do.

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Are you certain they don’t care? Often times seniors are working on a lot more than you’re aware of and are truly too busy to do some of the smaller things that feel like they are “pushing down” on you.

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Yes, matters you haven’t even heard of

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Sorry A, don’t let them change you. You do you in the most selfish & selfless way, make sense?

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Do you want to replace them or follow them?

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