Has anyone ever gotten to a point where they are crying and have consistent physical anxiety symptoms about having to go to work and interact with a specific partner? How did you deal with it?

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Medication and look for a new job

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I’ve experienced this but due to general burnout. Took medical leave immediately and it was the right decision.

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Take short term disability. Consult with an employment attorney if you believe you may have a claim.

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For me, getting out was the only way it was resolved.

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Yes, I was loud about not working for that partner ever again, sought out advice from a partner in another group I trusted, ultimately survived a bad review which oddly helped. I think I didn’t believe I wasn’t getting fired until after that was over. Lots of therapy and support from my family.

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I lateraled to another firm. Take mental health short term disability leave and look for a new job

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I lateraled

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Yes. Stayed for 3 years coz I was on H1b and couldn’t find a new job during the 3 years. Thankfully 1 year was peak Covid so didn’t have to interact with that partner.

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Yes due to a toxic partner. I advocated to work with other partners

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Lateral was the only solution. I refused to work with the toxic partner, received a nasty review, and was pushed out.

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