Hello all. I have been doing relatively better than my peers past few years. But I can’t help to always look and check on my peers and “afraid” of them catching up to my pace. Have any of you had same thoughts? How do you go through that feeling?

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That sounds like attachment to the idea that you are better than others. I’d ask yourself why your well-being is tied to the idea of being superior to others and start trying to imagine what your well-being would look like if you didn’t use others as reference points or if you welcomed them into your success.

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Ya I think u r right, I should attach my feeling to be superior to someone. I own my own path

People like you are difficult to work with

Not the vibe. Please be constructive or supportive or quiet

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