Hello everyone!

I was involved in several embarrassing and demoralising situations recently at work. A non-black colleague of mine had a little too much to drink and felt it was ok to use me as a racial pawn to his jokes. He used crude and racial terms to “relate” to me in front of other non-black colleagues. He went on to try to loop me in on James Brown’s “Say it Loud, I’m Black and I’m Proud”. Nothing was done about this. Should I be looking for another job?

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