hey everyone! just a little vent / encouragement post for whoever needs to see it:
I hate how we’ve been conditioned to think that if we’re not working, we’re out of purpose. I never feel more aligned & at peace than when im unemployed. I get a full nights rest & can sleep in, I have time to read books, be in nature, clean, listen to music, journal, have solo bible study., im literally so content in this waiting/transitioning period (bc that’s all it is). continued in comments.

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whoever you are reading this, remember that everything is temporary. just bc you’re unemployed right now doesn’t mean you’ll be unemployed next week or next month, keep your head up & keep job hunting but don’t stress yourself about it. remember that no matter how saturated they say the industry is, when it’s time for you to be in position, God will make room for you! find productive ways to keep yourself busy on the days it gets heavy & sink into the bed, stretch & relax on some days too. It doesn’t make you lazy, it makes you human. you deserve rest just like everybody else. good luck everybody.

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Sounds like Psalm 23 is the theme! I agree, and concur - I’ve had the same experience. Our life’s journey is about seasons. When we embrace and rest in the wait, we can find so much gold! Xx

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A nice post!

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