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You know what to do. Many people (myself included) have been in your situation, and while it feels completely heart wrenching now, from the way you described I wouldn’t be surprised if you felt relieved after ending things. Love is important, yes, but you need more than just love. I’m sorry you are dealing with this and hope you can find the support you need.
Maybe you don’t want to specify (and that’s totally fine), but what kind of lies are we talking about? Infidelity stuff? Secret habits of some kind? Something related to his trauma? Ultimately of course, what matters is how the lies are impacting you and your ability to trust him. I just feel like some lies are more understandable (and therefore forgivable) than others.
How old are you? And I mean this in the kindest way: if you're under 40, get your head out of your a$$ and move on. Later in life you are going to look back and wish you had kids and raised a family with a supportive partner, and you won't get any of that from your present situation. The human brain is wired to overweigh short term payoffs so breaking up with someone sucks ("but I love him!"). But you have to recognize that it's demented to stay with someone who has all these problems, you will ruin every dream you have for your future self. It may take a few years to find someone new and move on, but if you're young, that's time you have to spare. Use it or lose it.
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You say he “knows” he needs professional help, but has he actually been receiving any? I hate to admit it, but at one time in my life I was the toxic person in not one but two relationships. I suffer from severe anxiety and depression and it clouded my ability to see when I was in the wrong. I KNEW I needed help, but obviously mental issues can make it even harder to seek help. Once I got help, it completely changed my future relationships. If you realllly don’t want to end things just yet, I might suggest that you give one last hard push to get therapy, counseling, new medications, etc. There are some new, experimental therapies that some people are benefitting from. They may not help but could be worth a shot.