Hey, just wondering how you handle this - coworkers wanting to connect on Facebook when your profile is really just for personal stuff? I've got family photos, friend posts, nothing work-appropriate really. I don't want to be that person who seems antisocial, but I also value my privacy. What's worked for you in similar situations?

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Just say you don't add people from work. Years ago, before social media was known to be so toxic, I would just add people from my job if they sent me a request. And it was a huge mistake. Seeing people you work with arguing in the comments with your weird cousin is not what you want to see every night. Trust me on that.

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If you don't want to discuss it, avoid the topic. If they ask about your Facebook profile, you can change the conversation or be clear that you would rather have them connect with you on LinkedIn. People might not like it, but it's on them. Just be nice and say something like "I actually keep Facebook just for close friends and family, but I’d love to stay in touch on LinkedIn if that works for you!"

I’ve pretty much stopped using Facebook at all, so I tell coworkers that upfront. It’s true, and it also gives me an easy out without making it awkward.

I just say 'Sorry, it's just for close family due to personal content'. They will think you are talking bad about the job on socials but that is not your issue. I let them into other accounts like Instagram and that is usually good enough.

I usually keep Facebook for close friends and family, so I gently let coworkers know I’m more active on LinkedIn or happy to connect on WhatsApp for work stuff. Most people get it—and it sets a clear but friendly boundary.

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