How is everyone in their mid-30s finding people to date these days? Hinge and Tinder are too Gen Z, and as a gay man, Bumble isn't for me, even after their efforts to include our community. It makes me feel so hopeless, and I just want to ditch all the apps altogether. Could you all share if you've found success elsewhere? Going to bars on the weekend doesn't count as an option for me, please. :D

First year here. Do associates get fired for not meeting the billable requirements?

Trying to lateral and the conflicts clearance process could not be more frustrating. I'm at the point where I'm becoming resentful and annoyed at my new firm and I haven't even started. Is this indicative of my future experience there or completely unrelated?

What do big four federal healthcare associates (with 2 years work experience in healthcare industry) make in the advisory practice?

Does it make sense to move as a Deloitte SM2 to Capgemini Principal role.

Anyone been part of a successful, school culture transformation from one that is completely accepting of mediocrity to one that collectively strives for excellence?

What are some good platforms I can use to invest in Bitcoin? (Other than Robinhood)

Thoughts on the Marcus Investment robo advisory rolled out by Goldman a few weeks ago? They charge low fees which is great, but I have a hard time seeing what makes it different than others.

Is it financially irresponsible to buy a home that requires you to divert what you’re currently saving / investing monthly to pay the mortgage?

I’m studying for the SHRM-CP with the Mometrix (study guides, online course, and flash cards), however I’m super overwhelmed with all of the information. What are some best practices to ensure I grasp all of the concept ? Any advice would be much appreciated!!!

How is WLB in PwC india lately?

How do companies now view candidates from Meta?

Which is more useful in a HRBP role…data analytics or project management?

I work in quant and rely on our company’s database for everydays task, but couldn’t get any support from the company’s tech/data team. It’s been such a struggle. Everyday im fighting with red tapes and firewalls. :(

Desi 🐠- any recommendations for wedding dance choreographers in Chicago?

Have people checked out Aion by Matthew Spoke and Nuco? Looks like the next biggest thing since Ethereum to me. Curious of others' thoughts

25 but i feel like my city is suffocating me.. and I ready for new experiences or am i just running away from my problems?

What are the raises like for a Registered WM Client Associate at BOA/Merrill Lynch? Are they on an annual basis and are they competitive?

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

Shooters shoot boys. 29 here.

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Who’s in Dallas at ACT?? I missed the networking time and want to grab drinks

Went and caught the feels. Went and got real hurt.

Anyone in NYC this Thursday eve? Looking to go out and have a fun time. Tips/companions welcome :)

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

What’s up DC?

Lesbian fish in LA or staffed on a project there? Dranks? 🥂

Any bi males here who have struggled with “being taken seriously” by both the hetero & LGBTQ+ community? In the process of interviewing for a new company and feeling the familiar anxiety around coming out at work creeping up.

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

I recently joined Grindr……. 😵‍💫

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?