How long after starting a new job do you stop feeling like the “outsider”? I recently relocated to a new state, and began working as DA legal admin (first time in a government role). I was trained for a little over a month & now that my training is over, I’m feeling a bit out of place. I’m not the most outgoing person in the world, but also not completely shy. My spot in the office is sort of off the beaten path & people don’t pass by my desk very often. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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It took me about eight months to start feeling more at home. I’ve been at my new firm for a year and still feel a bit like an outsider, but things really seemed to start turning a corner a few months ago. Hang in there.

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