How to be more self-confident?

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Platform shoes.

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I stand corrected

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I always remember that nobody cares about me as much as I do, this sounds ass backwards (and it is) but I know that I continue to do my best and ask questions when I don't know something and that's all I can do.

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Workout and keeping fit - honestly a big difference; if you look good, you can feel good too!

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One beer

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Have you tried 2 beers? Works 2x as good.

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Lean in to your perceived weaknesses and frame them as strengths (introversion>more thoughtful and deliberating)

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By not giving an f’- it’s all about prioritizing your energy towards what is worthwhile, the rest is irrelevant.

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Huge beard

Just do it

https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0

Listen to the song boss bitch by Doja cat and embody the song

This quote has made a huge difference for me “Nobody is in charge, do your thing!”

Write down all the awesome things about you on your phone, and refer back whenever you don’t feel confident.

Behave like a partner

Rather than think “how can I get this person to like me” think “how can I like this person”

Like yourself in all your warts and glory.

Take all calls naked from the waist down.

Fake it until you make it.

And remember, whomever you're talking to is actually a person with real thoughts and feelings and wants and desires. Just treat them as a person and you'll be most of the way there.

Pick up heavy item. Repeat.

Wonder Woman pose Ted. Google it.

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Kindly DM I will send the resume.
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Hi guys!

I have an offer from wipro for B3 band.

Below is the salary breakage. Could anyone tell me what is going to be my in-hand salary per month.

Basic       :1020000

HRA        :510000

BONUS       :56800

WIPRO BENEFIT PLAN :399840

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PROVIDENT FUND   :122400

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Thanks,

Prem 

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A nice comfortable office chair.

https://ergochair.co/collections/chairs/products/ergonomics-mesh-chair-w-adjustable-headrest-and-armrest?variant=32511617597491

My criteria: mesh seat and back, arms, headrest

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AMA.

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