How to follow up without sounding desperate? I already let them know I have competing offer expiring. They promised to get back to me multiple times but still don’t have final decision from them despite positive feedback.

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Do they know when your competing offer expires? If it expires on Monday and they know that, they may be rushing to try to make you an offer by Thursday or Friday. Don't expect them to give you a lot of time in between

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Keep it simple—“hello, I am checking on the status of my application”

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Just say “please” a lot.

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How long has it been since your last interview? How long is it till the competing offer expires?

Agree with this

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