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You are not alone. You should have heard me today asking my manager for a promotion and going all “oh no, I totally understand that business is slow now and promotions are harder, no worries.”
This could've been the most diabolical answer if you knew what you were doing
You’re from the Midwest too?
Please don’t beat yourself up - you deserve better!!
Work on the need or protector for people pleasing and you’ll notice that all falls away. IFS therapy is amazing for this. Everyone has issues, we’re all human and we all have sh*t! Don’t beat yourself up over it, but channel this self loathing into positive growth.
My issue with overcharging with my mom is that we are super estranged and I crave love and acceptance from her so I’ll randomly share as a bid to get something I know I can’t receive. I am working to heal that so I don’t feel that compulsion around her. Just as an example.
That was so kind to say and I need to read it again. Thank you.
I agree, I have a 3 year old boy who is my whole effing world and its weirdly healing to me, but equally jarring, to feel this exploding and all encompassing adoration, love, and wonder for my son and then realize my parents never felt that for their little 3 year old daughter. It’s wild, mindblowing, so painful, but also so healing because literally in no world could that have possibly been that 3 year olds’ fault. It shoves into my face that no child could ever be unlovable enough for their own parent not to love them. It’s a wild ride and I’m grateful I get to have a beautiful loving family with my baby 🙏🏻
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You’re being awfully hard on yourself…give yourself a break 👍