I just screamed at my dad and walked out of our home.

This morning I was trying to get feedback from him on a business idea and his response was: Maybe you should focus on your career since you didn’t get a job in finance and had to settle for consulting, and you work at Deloitte... it’s a sweatshop. They didn’t even give you a fast track promotion did they?

This is a regular thing and it’s the fucking weekend. I could use a break.

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Why are you still seeking the advice and approval of someone that demeans and belittles you? Stop giving him the power to upset you.

Hope it gets better for you OP!

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Damn that sweatshop comment was spot on! You’ve a smart and toxic father.

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Yeah he’s very smart and runs his own firm

Why does this scream Indian dad? Anyhow, dw op. You got this.

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I mean some people would die to get into Deloitte and think D is prestigious. It’s all about perspectives bro. Don’t be too hard on yourself :)

My dad thought big 4 was pretty damn hardcore and I had to explain to him it’s a sweatshop with minimum wage.

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I wish my parents thought B4 were prestigious 😭

Sorry for the rant. Just extremely frustrated.

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You live with your parents? Move.

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He was super rude.

Your dad is very rude and being an a$$, so just ignore him.

Damn he attacked us all, the truth hurts 😅 But people always doubt entrepreneurs so tune out the naysayers and build your empire.

It would be a dream to hear business ideas from my daughter.

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