I don’t find anyone attractive anymore :( I’m 35 and it’s rare to find someone attractive - I know this sounds horrible and I think there’s something wrong with me and I don’t know what. With online dating I feel that’s key otherwise who am I going on a date with …what to do

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Focus on the quality of someone’s character. Recognize the absolute fact that VERY soon people will start considering you old and not attractive. Maybe you’ll mature a little before that happens.

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You’re mad at something but it’s not me. Saying I recognize it’s me is not recognizing the problem, although clearly you’re not even at that step with your comments. Nothing you said added any new info or value but you bothered to post a long paragraph of nothing and then expect me to engage with you. Go dump on someone else

Have you tried therapy?

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Majority of therapists can’t help themselves let alone others unless you’re extremely unaware and unreflective

Haha.

I find very few men attractive myself honestly - something happened after the pandemic, IMO.

Where do you live?

Yeaa and that’s why dei is where it’s at. aimless and non reflective

1. Do you have a type?

2. Are there certain physical traits or qualities that turn you off?

You may be right actually …I’m thinking maybe it’s lower libido lately which is then making me overall less “excited” ….again it’s more so on dating apps, it’s just hard for me to get excited over some pics and so going on dates feels like total crap shoot

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