Spending a weekend with my fiancé’s family out of town and quite literally my future FIL burps out loud 10x a day with no shame and his mom is a narcissistic monster in law just have no clue how these bizarre ppl created such a lovely person in my fiancé. Don’t need advice, just want to bitch. Can anyone relate??

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Can absolutely relate, especially with the lack of shame (I refuse to go out to eat with my FIL anymore due to how horribly he treats wait staff) and the narcissism (both in laws made our wedding about themselves anemy MIL literally wore a white sparkly gown to the wedding...) . And I have been told by multiple family members and friends that that don't understand how my husband the es our the way he is with such awful parents.

So you aren't alone. My husband says that 1) his parents have changed dramatically in the last 10 years, around the time he went to college (we've been together for 7-8) and 2) they are hypocrites who raised him one way but think they are allowed to do whatever they want. So they at least raised him well, but they don't practice what they preach if that makes sense.

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I wouldn’t care about the burping as I fully expect of he can do it I can do it and therefore there should be no judgement if I burp 😂 as for the narcissism yeah that’s not cool

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