I have this neighbor who lost some weight, and now my interest is piqued. I could tell he used to like me, but once he realized the feeling wasn’t mutual, he just smiles and moves on with no more talks.

I feel awkward trying to approach him. He was really sweet when I first moved in, and we had some nice chats before, but I don’t know now—what should I do?

Dilema between joining hsbc, societe generale and BNP Paribas, salary almost se in all of them, work domain is different, hsbc is offering manager role in compliance analytics it's in their GSC division, i don't know what this complaince analytics is and what's it's future, BNP Paribas and societe are offering BA roles in capital markets that's what I have worked till now , I am 7 years exp, fishes please help with this great dilema

How bad is this trade war going to be?

Not enough people understand mountain driving etiquette - if you see a conga line of cars behind you it’s because you’re slow and you should pull over at the next available turnout and let them pass.

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

Very Noob question: First year here that has done DD for a couple of deals representing the seller now. Essentially all I did was note whether certain agreements have change of control provisions, and if so, what the specific language is. I understand what the CoC do, but why am I doing this? Specifically, what does the buyer do with this? It seems like these provisions should trigger but nothing then happens...

Hi, how long does it take for HR to release offer letter post HR round?

Kicking off a secondment process to the U.K. Anyone here done one of those before? Appreciate any help

Sorry if this has been asked ad nauseum around here, but can anyone recommend a really good (yet easy and basic) skincare routine? Specific products/brands would be really helpful.

Mid-20’s here. TIA, I really appreciate it.

American Airline q - if I have Gold status and an American Airlines credit card - does that mean I get two free checked bags or one

Almost 12 weeks. Still feeling sick in the evenings. Anyone? Please tell me this will end soon…

💥Relocated to NYC and my real estate broker has said it’s been hard to book any showings. I’ve heard in this market, having a broker can hurt you because property owners prefer to not split the brokerage fee & go straight through tenants. Is there truth to this?😫

Why are you planning to leave Axtria within a year of joining?

For those in tech and big cities, would you mind sharing what an M3 (no MBA but masters) should be making? Interested in base salary and bonus to see if my trajectory is on the low end. 9yrs exp.

Hi all,
I am tech guy with almost 3yr exp, but I want to switch to a Management role. Going for an MBA is not possible for me. I was wondering about the possibility to switch to a management role within the next 2 years without an MBA. Company/Brand is not a bar for me.
Can somebody please suggest how to do this?

What designation does UBS offer to a person with non technical profile with 11 years of experience?

Need advice...my old doctor moved and most of the new docs I’ve tried have refused to fill my Xanax script which I’ve been getting since I was a teen for constant panic attacks. I’ve tried other meds

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

I know I will get hated by saying this. Do you think gay pride events are portraying a bad image about our community to public? (Drugs, sexual, inappropriate clothes, and sometimes like strip clubs- some parts). I know it is right to present us but I just feel it is not the right way to show who we are. I wish the pride where everybody can connect in a more friendly way (outdoor game- team work, dance, drink something not too sexual.) there are some good parts of pride tho. Any opinions?

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

Any trans in this bowl from India ?

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

Queer life in Hawaii? Anyone have any experiences living there?

I need to switch teams or firms. Been here for a year and no development or projects with my team. Gay network help! Lol

Only recently started being out/comfortable being bi, but overcoming a lot of self stigma. Others seem so secure in the LGBT world already, it leaves me terrified how/where to begin. Help?

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?

Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

I recently joined Grindr……. 😵‍💫