I have to keep reminding myself that I don't need validation from certain people. It's hard.

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“It’s hard.” - That’s what she said.

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I have struggled with this too as a very type A person. What I’ve learned over the years in therapy is that it is difficult and something you have to work on daily. You can do it 😊

Block them off. You don’t need them op

Maybe it’s not work related. But it hits the bullseye at work as well. I am in a toxic environment that partners all have unrealistic expectation, I am ready to leave. I’m better than their evaluations. I guess we both didn’t see the value in each other.

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