I used to think my work defined me like my job title somehow decided my worth. I put so much pressure on myself to prove something through work, and it honestly got exhausting. Over time, my mindset changed. I started seeing work as something that supports my life, not something that is my life. Letting go of that idea took a huge weight off my shoulders. Have you ever felt that pressure to tie your worth to your work?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

We are raised in a culture that ties our value to the job we hold. Capitalism is wild like that, isn't it? It's so important to be aware of, and challenge those thought processes. Just like you, letting go of that pressure was such a massive relief for me. What matters to me is being a good person, not what my job title is.

like

Yeah letting go of that “my job = my value” mindset really does feel like a weight off your shoulders.

That shift is huge. So many of us grow up believing our job title equals our value, and it’s exhausting trying to live up to that. Realizing work is just one part of life not the measure of your worth feels like finally breathing again.

like

So true, once you stop tying your whole worth to work it honestly feels way less draining.

All the time! I finally realized that I was pressuring myself just to prove something to other people that I don’t even care about. I need to remind myself of this every now and again.

like

I think a lot of us do that without realizing it, good reminder to keep things in perspective.

That shift in mindset is huge, and honestly really hard to get to. A lot of workplaces quietly reinforce the idea that your value equals your output, so unlearning that feels uncomfortable at first. Seeing work as something that supports your life instead of consuming it is freeing, but it takes time and usually some burnout to get there.

like

Yeah unlearning that mindset really does take time most of us only realize it after hitting burnout.

Everyday. I guess since I don’t have a lot going on in my personal life, I see my career as one of the most important aspects of my life. The thing in my life I can feel proud of.

like

Nothing wrong with being proud of your career, as long as you don’t forget to leave some space for yourself too.

I really like what I do, so it’s hard not to get too wrapped up into it. I am literally exhausting myself because of it. I wish I could just let go and I care as much but then I would feel like I’m letting myself down overtime. I’ve definitely learned how to choose my battles but I surely have to do a better job of it.

like

That’s the hard part when you actually care about your job, switching off feels almost impossible sometimes.

Related Posts

Need 11 likes for DM.please help

like

Hello Fishes,

Which one from below should we join.
Infosys -18 lpa
Cognizant -21 lpa

like

Little copilot today. Had to get some shot boosters. She was a very brave girl

Post Photo
likeuplifting

Hi Fishes,

I'm working in Wipro last year on 25/11/2021.. i have joined Wipro as fresher TRB band but still i didn't received any hike and band progression till now... I have not joined through campus placement... Please guide me when I'll be eligible for hike ...

like

Meeting people while in consulting and in your early 30s...? Possible?

What are your thoughts on the quick turn around to replace RGB’s seat with ACB? And how the the line of separation of church and state seem to be getting thinner?

Which agency does Jack Daniels TV?

like

For those who have a hard time going to sleep at night try this put your phone on bedtime

Post Photo
like
like

New to due diligence and not sure the timeline of projects. Tips to stay organized of the project and timeline, and how to update those leading the deal? Just keep track of new info and provide as necessary?

like

First couple times drafting ancillary docs—is it normal to not get everything/feel like I have no idea if I got stuff right. Or is the expectation that the docs be drafted 100% in executable form.

likefunny

I have an offer from @Publicis Sapient and @Genesys , which will be better in terms quality of work and work life balance and appraisals.. Please help

like

Lol a client just emailed saying they want to sign a $1.5bn deal (we are sell side) not at some point before or by, but rather ON CHRISTMAS DAY.

What the hell is wrong with people?

likefunny

What is resource management group?

Hows the appraisal number in coforge for this year ?? Nd also how much variable did you guys received ??

And I thought I had a long day!

Post Photo
like

Hey guys, recently got offer from Airbus , they mentioned about onsite training and cost involved in case I plan to leave the org any time soon. Could someone please throw some light on this 😊

likefunny

Hello Fishes,

I have been getting mails like increase in revenue of 7.5% for IBM in this quarter. Can we expect bonus under growth driven profit policy?

Why does Newark close tsa pre lanes? Terrible

like

Are morning erections healthy in men?

I used to get strong erections daily, but off lately I have been missing out on getting boners in the morning.

Is this normal?

Should I be worried?

I get erections otherwise throughout the day, but the morning one is the hardest and longest (duration)

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal