I’m not sure where else to post this, but where can I find WM that likes BW? I’m ready to start dating again. How do you spot the ones that just want you for fantasies?

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Dating apps are easier. In person you may have to be the one doing the approaching as I’ve learned that white guys wont approach if they’re unsure if you’ll be interested in white guys. For spotting the fantasy guys, that’s very easy to gauge once they open their mouth.

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Yeah before meeting my bf, who is white, I noticed I’d always get approached by white men online but not in person. If you’re not in the same circles or same spaces as them it’s hard. It’s easier online because you can see people that you’d miss running into in person. OP, my boyfriends brother has been with a black woman for years now and they met on match.com. Check that out.

Go to places they hang out. Pick up hobbies that they like to do. Have lunch with your friends in that part of town. Smile at them and say hi. In the age of social media you can just look at their following to see their fantasy. If he follows lots of “chocolate women” pages then that’s your sign lol

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I always ask straight out “how will your parents feel about you dating a black woman?”.

Have you tried any of the dating apps? I think they all generally suck but sometimes people do find someone on the apps so they do work for some people. I recommend trying to get out and about and meeting people.

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Depending on how old you are OP, I wouldn’t recommend Match.com…typically skews older

…. Why not just date everyone and see what works?

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Thanks for the well wishes. I asked specifically about WM, but that doesn’t mean they are all I date. I know how to find the others so that’s why my question was very specific. Thanks again

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If you look good enough at happy hour or a hotel at lunchtime. I’m in NYC and it’s normal. I see IR couples everywhere. Men are men if you look good they still approach.

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Dating coach Anwar your fairy god brother said “if a WM’s feet are pointing at you, he’s interested”. 😂😂😂. Ginger’s, and bald men over 35 are more likely to date Black women. Also Jewish men but most specifically ashkenazi Jews because they literally can’t risk dating anyone with even a hint of Jewish ancestry because of a serious genetic condition that will show up in the kids.

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I met my white husband on the dating apps. I encourage you to have fun with dating, explore new possibilities and remember it’s a numbers game.

How old are you? If you’re under ~40 dating apps may be your best bet as opposed to match or eharmony

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What do you mean by it’s a numbers game? I’m 28

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