New in town, where do I go to meet people (for friends and dating)?

Anyone wants to meet for drinks next week?
29 | Male

Has anyone had any luck using ‘The League’ dating app? I’m a 29yo woman based in Houston.

So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

I’m talking to THE nicest woman, but I’m not sexually attracted to her 😭

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

32 | F | Dallas looking for some decent friends..weekend restaurants/bar..HH hangouts. Also I’m a lesbian but I am NOT in the dating scene nor mindset. So please don’t be alarm, I’m not THAT lesbian that’ll try to hit on you. I respect boundaries like I would expect the same from the next person. I have way more heterosexual friends if anything.

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Has anyone else ever dated a coworker?

30M, Fit, Indian, I am here to avoid arranged marriage and I don’t like dating apps :)

Has anyone ever submitted themselves to washingtonprobs dating stories on instagram? or reach out to someone on it?

I love when randomly talking to a straight man and they out of nowhere say “I have a girlfriend” all shaky and nervous. It gives DL guys in sweatpants tease and that I’m doing something right 😂

First afternoon date(ish) in South Ken. What are some good places to go for coffee/drinks etc.?

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

What's your date of Jalsa??

Just looking to meet someone here, a little about me, I’m a 27 years old guy , work in finance, love playing tennis and eating Italian food. Also I have aspergers.

What is the difference between fetish and kink? I thought they were same.

So many guys lurk in this bowl even if it is ‘desi ladies’. The minute I respond to any post related to dating, multiple guys try to slide into DMs acting innocent as if they are just ‘curious’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️

Hello Friends,

Please let me know which company to choose between below options in terms of WLB and also keeping recession in mind :

CitiusTech - 27.5 lpa fixed
Nouveau Labs - 30 lpa fixed and 1L JB

Both are Bangalore location.

Role : Automation Test Lead, YOE : 7.2 years

Thank you in advance!

Looking for a good recruiter in central to puppet Florida...anyone have any one that they can recommend?

What’s DDB like these days?

Team dinner reccs? 5 ppl, $125 budget p’

I am curious how Onesource Income tax stacks up against it's competition.

Any recommendations on a decent treadmill under $500?

I have offers from Chubb, Legato and IQVIA. CTC almost similar. Which one would be a better option considering better wlb, job security and wfh flexibility.

please help me in this, my DOJ is on frst week october

Hi People,

YOE 5.5,
Skills - Java 8, springboot, hibernate, microservices
Got one offer from a startup company 24 LPA fixed (Remote opp. Which is giving me "WLB" anxiety already being a startup)
Publicis sapient 22 LPA
IRIS 20 LPA

Is it ok to ask for a counter offer in these 2 companies ?

Which one should be a best fit in terms of growth, WLB ?

Hi People,
Please give me a rough estimate on how much hike we can expect in my annual salary revision. I expected 8LPA when I joined. They gave me 5LPA with a promise of revision in 3months after joining. They inc it to 7.75LPA after 4m and during appraisal cycle gave 25k 11months to make it to 8LPA. In Oct my hike is due, so I would to like negotiate my hike. Please let me know how much I can ask for.

How much salary does delta airline offer for senior SDET with 5years of exp.
CCTC: 15LPA

Hi Fishes can anybody help me reviews about NSE IT? How's working culture? Work life balance? Carrier growth? I am having 10 years experience in sales working for Newgen software

😳😳 I’m out on PTO next week, and it’s the first time I’m not taking my laptop home with me. It’s making me anxious but I’m taking all of your advice and leaving it here!

Hello,
Does anyone have advice for someone looking to purchase their first investment property? Maybe something you wish you knew before buying yours etc. I’m looking at single families

Hello, looking for a Shared Flat near Jayanagar, JP nagar, BTM Layout1/2 HSR Layout. Anyone looking for a flatmate please dm me.

Feel like there is always some debate and discrepancy about this. Can any gsaper returning to the firm this year or returned last year share a breakdown of their total comp offer (base + signing bonus + early signing). Interested in seeing both commercial and gps offers. Thank you!

Hey does anyone know the GSAP Comp on year 3? If 1st yr back is 165k, with 10% yoy increase (raise + bonus), 3rd yr would be at least 200k? Can anyone validate this?

Wharton submitted!!! So anxious

What is MBB partner salary in UAE?

Let's start a thread to highlight which industries and/or companies are doing right by their employees this holiday season. Share your job title and what kind of year-end bonus you are getting. (Feel free to share your company's name if you are comfortable doing that)

What's your fave restaurant to take people to when they are visiting? And why?

Looking to exit UTHEALTH SA for other opportunities. Healthcare is great but pay/retirement is womp-womp. How is comp and benefits at your company? Can someone who has been in academic medicine as a Clinical Reporting Analyst transition to other industries? Thoughts fishies.

So just found out my in-laws are having Thanksgiving ham and meatloaf and no turkey... do other people do this?

Moving to San Antonio from Austin. Will be In Office 3 days a week near Sea World. Married with a 1 year old and active dog. We love good food and being active... Where should we live? Any other suggestions. As a reference we lived in the 04/Soco area for 6 years.

Is it just me or does anyone else know or have an inclination that their employer committed fraud after receiving PPP loans during COVID pandemic?

Looking to move to San Antonio and we're looking at places in Alta Vista and El Dorado. Pros and cons? We have two kids under five, so looking for a nice family community with good schools.

Hi everyone! Local young woman here looking at a position at WellMed, pivoting from a career in tech project management. Is anyone here able to provide a referral or tips on the process? Thanks in advance!

We bought a property and the house next door fence post is on our property line. We’re planning on putting a fence on our vacant lot. What do we do about the fence post? Since no one owns the house? It was foreclosed on and I think a bank owns it now.

I'm in my first semester in school right now and I need money to be able to pay to continue going to school (car/phone payments, gas, classes, ect.) Does anyone have any advice ? Thank you

What's going on this weekend? Any fun holiday shops or pop-up bars I could check out?