Girl I went on a date with talked about how much money she makes doing Monat MLM. Anyone know much about this? Legit or scam?

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

Currently going through divorce proceedings. I honestly don't want to date anyone right now but I have this fear that I'm already 28 and I'll never meet anyone good. I went on some apps and matched with some guys but I feel like they're all the same and I don't wana get to know anyone. But I'm also scared for my future.

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

Genuine question - why do people slide into DMs on here? Why would you spend time trying to get to know someone when there’s like a 1% chance you’re in the same geographical area and would have mutual interest in each other? Is it not better to spend your time on tinder or bumble to find people that are guaranteed to be nearby if you’re bored?
Edit: I mean DMs that are not platonic/networking 🙃

Serious question: When taking a girl out on a date - do you guys usually split the tab or is it more common to pick up the tab as the guy? I know it varies person to person but curious what the general consensus here is. Input from women and men appreciated!

Just found this bowl and it’s hilarious. I feel less guilty for shamelessly flirting on fishbowl now

Well, I’m so busy and anxious that I’m not able to eat during the day, but on the plus side I have abs for the first time since I was 18

I’m not a very big guy but this one girl I was with keeps saying ouch. She’s not a tiny girl. I asked if it was ok and she said it’s good pain. Thoughts?

Any chance of meeting smo serious on Tinder? I know it's mostly a hookup site, but have you met any exceptions?

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

My current life situation has really brought my self esteem down and this quarantine makes it even worse. How do you lift yourself up when you feel low? I feel like I really want some validation that I’m attractive from someone but have never ever felt the need for it my whole life

If you’re in a relationship (even a happy one), is flirting fine or walking a line? I think consistently flirting with the same person can be shaky, but what about strangers if you’re out?

I’m scared I’ll end up being alone. I’ve truly enjoyed being single all this time but as time passes by, I keep thinking to myself that something must be wrong with me that I’m not in a relationship. I also don’t feel confident being on dating apps since I gained weight during the pandemic (about 30 lbs). I’m holding off on dating until I get into better shape but I’ll be 27 by then and I feel like I’ll be too old to put myself out there.

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Almost said the wrong name in bed yesterday; caught it right at the moment - the low-key panic I felt damn 😳

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Hello Everyone, Can anyone please give any referral for RPA Developer (Power Automate/ Automation Anywhere) YOE - 2.4 Years Thanks....

Just bought AMC April 7$. I think we get a pop in the next few days maybe to 10

Dating in California! What’s your experience?any difference between NYC?

My contract is ending 12/31/22 and can’t be extended legally according to our CFO. Worked in various increasingly responsible roles at the same organization as a FT employee in IT for 17 years and then took a buyout and chilled doing side gigs for 18 months then came back as temporary contract staff for the last 3.8 years as Business Analyst and Technical Writer. Curious to know if I’m being unreasonable in expecting my next Senior BA role to pay in the $110-130k range in the DC Metro Area.

Please suggest some smartwatch except Apple.

Budget 20-30K

Where all all the LoL players?

Hello Buddies,

After a long time yesterday did tricep workout and did 50 pushup in a strech. Today I can't lift my hands up even for eating. Anyone has any remedy for this.

Salam, Ramadan Mubarak! Anyone trying to maintain some level of strength training during Ramadan? I know it’s ideal to lift after iftar (maybe after dates/water + magrib and before dinner) but wonder if it is doable to squeeze in a 30-40 min training session right before iftar (for time saving purposes)?

My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now. We talk every single day online and recently I went to visit her for around a month. It was great and it seemed like the relationship was stronger than ever. But one week back after visiting her, I felt a strange detachment from her and our conversation topic got repetitive and stale quick. Any advice?

New York’s court system is postponing all “non-essential” services starting Monday.

Any insight on Proskauer’s NYC L&E practice group? Good place for associates?

Does GDC have a reputation as a good place to work in BL?

How do i see my utilization?

Has anyone done the CAIA credential? Care to explain your journey?:)

Hi Fishes

I joined IBM in october 2021 what if i drop my papers now? How long will i have to serve the notice period

What are M7 MBB recruiting timelines ? Considering applying right now to MBB, but if I get rejected I’m going to do an MBA, will I be blacklisted from applying for summer internships if I get rejected this fall ?

Hi all, I have a question regarding retirement accounts. I am not sure if I should choose a Roth or 401k (company has 4+2% match). Currently 23, base salary is ~100k and investments have brought 45k this year which has me teetering between a 22-24% tax bracket. Wondering what the usual tax bracket is of people retired (around 65yo) as I’m not sure anything would bring in significant income with the exception of investments. In my case would a Roth make sense? Appreciate any answers!!

I am currently finishing up CFP course work. Does anyone have tips or tricks for studying for the actual exam? I am particularly concerned about the investment planning section. I have 12 plus years in the industry and CRPC. I do planning literally everyday but a test is a test and this is the module I have had the most trouble with.

I love the only "flair" you can have as a man in banking is wearing funky socks, and even that one is getting a bit played out.

The discrepancy between the time I spend making a pitch book and the time the client spends actually reviewing them is something I'd rather not think about

How many credit cards should I have open to build up a solid credit score? Mine isn’t bad but I’m hoping to buy my first home in the next couple of years so just looking to make it even better. I have 2 cards open and I thought that was normal until I saw another post on here of some people saying they have anywhere from 10-15. Should I have more accounts?

Working in Risk Management, looking into the FRM exams. Does anyone have any insight or advice?

How long do Citi background checks take? Do they send you an application once you sign the offer?

Is retail quant trading on a massive rise?

Surprised by how skewed towards bankers FB seems to be. Would've thought there'd be a more even balance of bankers and markets people. Interested in hearing people's thoughts.

What's your morning schedule like? Mine 1) wake up 2) curse and cry looking at myself in the br mirror 3) dress nicely to make myself feel better and 4) coffee up and head to office.

Is it just me or has there been a noticeable brain drain in banking in the past few years? Analysts are not what they used to be.

Does anyone know what the base salary increase is going from Analyst to AVP at Barclays in the UK is? Front office trading role

My fellow remote workers: Do you ever run errands without saying anything during the day? I try
to go grocery shopping once a week around lunchtime. I just really can’t stand the crowds over the
weekend and I’d rather stay online later if it means getting my shopping done earlier.

Anyone know of people who switched to the Strategy side of their bank? Obviously there will be a pay cut, but looking to move towards that direction in my career due to interests

GS 2023 New Analyst Program. Is this a good program to apply for someone looking to start as an analyst? How easy is to get into this program or even GS overall? I have 1-2 years of experience and some Finra licenses if that can help me somehow. Looking for some opinions about the program. Thanks

Best gadgets, accesorios, etc. for traveling? What are the things you always take with you when you travel?

There has been a significant flow of investors to higher yielding corporate and emerging market securities.

Anyone have a Branch referral code? I’m starting a new role in PE and wondering if this is decent chair out there besides the usual HM, Steelcase and Autonomous