It's so annoying when someone you work with refuses to acknowledge your existence... and when they need something from you (which is often), they will only speak "to you" through a 3rd person 🙄 This yt lady is at least 40 acting like a child

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You need to address this issue head on. I’d put it in writing to your manager and frame it as her behavior impeding your ability to do your job. Be sure to give 2-3 examples and outline how long it has been happening

Then it’s on your manager (not you) to address it head on.

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Thank you! I'll definitely do this!

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