I've been contemplating for a long bit now whether I should stay at my job I've been at for 10+yrs or get another job that closer to home and less pay to be over to my son should anything happen and now have a newborn babygirl . Has anyone else gone through a situation like this ? The pay is nice 22/hr but the drive is long 35miles to and back .

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I did when my daughter was born. My old restaurant was a 45 minute drive each way. Money was great because it was a fancy French place, but the drive and the hours were really hard with an infant to take care of. I ended up leaving to work at a cafe 10 minutes away from my apartment. Money wasn't anywhere near as good, but it made the first year of her life a lot easier on all of us.

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How much does that commute cost you? That will give you an idea how much money you would be saving if you switched.

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