I’ve got two offers: one with a $20k higher base but brutal hours, and another with a lower salary but real 9–5 flexibility. My loans are huge, but I’m burned out. Which would you choose?

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Unless the lower salary is less than 100k, 20k isn’t really financially life altering. Probably go with the more flexibility

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Any chance you could negotiate a higher salary at the lower paying job? If not, I’d still take the lower salary. IMO 20k isn’t enough of a pay bump to justify substantially worse hours especially if you’re already feeling burned out.

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If you’re already burned out, an extra $20k/year isn’t going to cure that. Might be a different story if it was an extra $50-75k/year.

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Flexibility for sure, unless you're living paycheck to paycheck. $20k is not even close to worth the difference between brutal hours and real flexibility. I just took a $55k pay cut to go reduced hours and have no regrets.

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Easy choice. B. Burnout multiplies exponentially.

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Lower pay. $20k isn’t enough for your mental health, especially since you may not last.

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What is the TC overall for both? $20k isn’t a meaningful amount to justify higher hours. But it depends on where you’re at now. For reference, I work 9-5 but my TC is $300k. I wouldn’t work more hours for $20m extra.

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lol I meant $20k

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$20K isn’t nearly enough to endure brutal hours, especially when you’re already burned out. Take the 9-5.

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Just left a similar situation to your 1st offer not too long ago. Took a 20K cut to base for a more manageable schedule and better back-end numbers. Definitely worth the cut if you can afford it and will be happier at the lower-paying firm.

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You answered your own question with the admission you’re burned out..

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You will end up spending at least half that extra takehome trying desperately to keep yourself from sinking into complete misery.

I pay more on my loans now at a job with decent work life balance than I did when I made $50,000 more a year.

Hard to believe! But the extra time and energy allow me to cut down on takeout, shop around for good deals on bigger purchases, avoid impulse purchases/stress spending, take care of things before they get expensive, keep a closer eye on my budget…

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Tell the more flexible place you have another offer. See if they can match it or bring the salary higher.

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I’d be careful with this because some employers get really turned off by this.

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You now have leverage. It also shows you are excellent negotiator.

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It’s an extra $1500 a month. Is that significant enough for you to endure the brutal hours?

Actually, after taking off FICA and Medicare (employee share = 7.65%), state income tax (LOW estimate of 5%), and federal marginal tax at 24% (for up to 32% and 35%quickly), your looking at around $1,000/month.

How many more hours are those brutal hours? Even if only 10 extra hours per week, that's a take-home difference of $23/hour. If more extra hours per week, that take-home hourly pay rate sinks lower and lower.

For only $20K, I'd definitely take the guaranteed 9 - 5 job. With that extra time, you might find a side hustle to more than make up the difference. Or you could give yourself a break. Or you could do something in between.

The 9 - 5 job gives you choices. The +$20K job locks you in to a pretty low rate.

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What’s total comp for the two options

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