Just got a raise today for my firm job and recieved title of COO with an ownership and equity deal in a new company (subsidiary of the firm). I know I should be absolutely bouncing off the walls ecstatic, but I'm just exhausted, even though I mainly work from home. 6-7 days a week, 60+ hours a week with West Coast hours working on the East Coast, nights/weekends. I'm 35 and I feel like I'm 807 years old. Is it supposed to be like this? I am SO grateful, but so, so tired. Any career/life advice?

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Wow that is really great to hear. That does sound like a rough schedule though. It doesn't sound like you have any work life balance at all.

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I don't understand your scenario. Paralegal COO of a firm subsidiary... I don't understand.

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That helps. I've learned over time that just about anyone really well paid is working very hard (though there are a few exceptions). Hopefully you're being compensated for your effort. That matters.

How is your work/life balance? Are you taking time to rest and spend time with family and friends? Experiencing success in business is great but not if it's running you ragged.

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Literally non-existent. If I have a day off, it's mostly on Saturdays and all I do is run errands and then sleep. And then I feel guilty for taking a day off lol

Sounds like it’s time to take that vacation.

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