Living in a loveless, sexless marriage where I’ve been assured divorce. I’ll spare the details but while we figure it out, what are discreet ways to meet people on the road with no strings attached?

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Just head down to the hotel bar. Stay at a W.

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I’d encourage you to refrain until the paperwork is filed. It’s in your best interest

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At the very minimum, have a notarized document outlining the mutual recognition of your separation date.

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Not judging, just pointing out the value prop you offer. “Hey, who wants to have some no strings attached casual fun with a married dude who absolutely is getting divorced but also we have to keep things quiet...” Not super compelling for most women.

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SM1 point taken but that takes so long ... life is short. Also if it’s discreet then it shouldn’t matter. Or is that impossible these days

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If your word means anything to you, it does matter. At the end of the day, your word is all you have.

It’s not easy, I know first hand.

The point is, think about how you would like to start a new relationship, is it on questionable footing or a solid foundation of trust and confidence?

Look, it’s your choice, but you have your kids and you will have to answer to them one day. I hope you can look them in the eyes with integrity and pride.

High risk move. If she finds out about this prior to divorce she’s going to take everything.

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Please don’t judge. Im not happy about this, but I’m also pretty sure I’m not the first one to be in this situation. Figuring out divorce takes a while - we’re okay co-parents - but terrible spouses together and I just want to at least have some level of happiness and fun outside of working my ass off and being a good parent while home. I’ve heard of Seeking Arrangement but that all seems kind of weird/creepy. Just looking for somewhat normal people to have a casual relationship with

Is separated not a viable path? Divorce is financially crippling.

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