Anyone ever worked with someone attractive and NOT fantasized about them?

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I’m never attracted to ppl I work with. :(
Even if I’m initially attracted to them it goes away the moment I start working with them 🥺

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I fantasize about unattractive people😏

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Same.

Yeah all the time bud

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Because he is trying to find excuses for this, because he is married and thinks he shouldn’t be doing it.

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Yes. All the time. No, I'm not married.

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Cannot relate but 🤙🏼🤙🏼

Yes everyday

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Yes, I work with plenty of women of who are pretty.

But I’m only attracted to men.

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👋🏾

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I have lots of thoughts that should never be spoken. In fact, if I slipped and busted my head open you would see a bunch of small hairy triangles.

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Yes, all the time. Married for 10 years, no fantasies about anyone besides my husband.

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I have a feeling you’re rare

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Yes.

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Lmao this didn’t go as OP planned.

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But good guess!!!!

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