Quarantine life has me reassessing my life and in that I realized the girl I’ve been dating casually for 2 months isn’t for me. How does on handle this when already lonely AF?

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I wouldn’t make a big life decisions during this time

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If you know she isn’t for you then she isn’t for you. Don’t drag yourself and her along because you’re lonely. Better yourself. Someone better for you will come around

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Don’t drag her along. Do her a favor and break up. I would not want you to waste my time.

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How do you let them off nicely? Going through something similar...

You don’t owe them anything. You are casually seeing each other. Just say it’s not what I’m looking for or I don’t see this being anything I want in the long term. And I usually say good luck

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Just tell her you’re not seeing anything long term. It could be that she won’t be hurt at all if you have not been together that long. How do you know she’s serious about you? Maybe she is not that into you either. Usually, it’s mutual to have vibes.

Then all the more reason why you need to let her go. Longer you wait, the deeper the pain.

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