Managing a STEM career transition while raising a young child is the ultimate lesson in ruthless resource allocation. You simply do not have the time to overthink. If an action doesn't directly move the needle—like securing an interview or finalizing a project—it has to be cut. Working parents, what is the one "standard professional practice" you completely abandoned because it wasn't driving actual results?

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I am right there with you. Being a busy parent really does teach you how to prioritize. I think parents in a profession experience this, though.

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Staying over arbitrability. You putting in extra hours when you aren’t getting anything out of it needs to go. There can be a busy time, something extreme happened, and that’s one thing, but constantly needing to is not for me. Any good ways you’ve found to separate the stress of the two? I feel like if everything is going smoothly at home, it's work that's crazy, and vice versa.

I feel like this can be a parent in any profession. You have to learn balance and prioritize what you want to spend time on.

I respect that level of clarity. When time is limited, every action has to justify itself. I have started cutting “perfect preparation” and focusing only on actions that actually move something forward.

Catch up meetings that just seem like time fillers rather than actual productive discussions. Have you also prioritised your time in this way?

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