How do you work with people who think you are not smart? For the next few months, I have to work with 2 people who have almost gaslighted me into thinking I don’t have substance. I’m looking for a new job but not as actively as I should.

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I only care about the ones that sign my paycheck 💅🏼

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Ahh, a lead recruiter, to be in constant bliss, I’m very jealous.

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Hey there, I am sorry that you are going through this. How have they made you feel this way? Did they express it verbally?

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