My reporting manager shows full hatred towards me. How do I deal with this? I try to tell myself that God has a plan and everything, but it still gets to me. What should I do? He just doesn't like me and won't back me up.

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My two cents - once an opinion is formed, it can’t be changed. Do your best. You’re indeed being shaped for good. God has put you in this situation so that you can learn on how to deal with these situations . Document your work. Give him a timeline and send an update every 2 hours. Ask for guidance or course correction. Pit everything on email/ chats. He will figure out that you’re documenting so he will take it easy if things go really really out of hand, report to and HR. Worst case - he may shut up once he gets warning. He can’t do this. Respect is bare minimum quality one should have

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How to send an update every 2 hrs; moreover I don't work with my couselor - he is just reporting manager who is on a mission to spoil my career. I have very good feedbacks from work rekated steakeholders.

And what rating they used to give then?

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Any specific reasons you are aware of for this?

He just don't like my presence, face or may be me being alive today.

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You are saying you don't work with your counsellor so how exactly is he spoiling your career?
I have been under multiple reporting managers but I never worked directly with them on any project..Never connected with any of them as well..Only used to connect with me to tell year end rating

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