Networking is worse than useless. They just pretend to like you for as long as they can get something from you then disappear if you ask for a referral, despite history of good work. (Womens ERGs are the most toxic, patriarchy-enforcing groups in tech).

I got my job on LinkedIn Easy Apply three months ago. Moved across the country by myself, started over, much better colleagues. I had poured myself out past empty for my network back home, sacrificed everything for them. Not one has called me :)

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