recently i been to an interview session. but i tell you that was the worst iv session in my career life. the interviewer was so damn fussy keep pushing me to reveal my payslip though i already said im still bound with the contract with my current company. she keep question me and made me think like im stupid for not knowing how to iv. halfway i already not interested and want to end quick, but she keep on pushing and gaslight me as if im stupid.

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That sounds genuinely exhausting
an interviewer who pushes past a clear, professional boundary isn't testing you, they're showing you the culture. You handled it right. A payslip under contract isn't negotiable, and knowing that isn't ignorance it's integrity.
The worst interviews aren't failures. They're filters. That one filtered them out.

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Uhh...

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It's a huge red flag for any potential employer to get that hung up on your current income. To further drive that point, it's actually illegal to ask.

Take the job if you are desperate, but keep looking.

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It is NOT illegal to ask in many if not most states.

Should have just left…

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I would have just walked out of that interview because there were too many red flags. The interviewer herself sounds very rude and very unprofessional to me. It seems like all she cared about was your income level. I, for one, wouldn't want to work for a company like that. The interviewer's attitude alone speaks VOLUMES to me as to what kind of person she really is. That tells me everything I need to know about the company as well

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