Setting boundaries with in-laws works or bonding with them works?

Basically I want to build confidence with in-laws that I don't have negativity intentions for them and i can keep them safe healthy lifetime

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Such kind of questions are coming. That's why I think marriage as a concept has lost its meaning. There was a time when a woman used to leave her parents' home, wholeheartedly accept the in law's as her own parents. And if the parents are your own, would you set boundaries with them?

Hahahaha.. typical men...go out nd see how a divorced women is treated nd how divorced men are treated...

Settings healthy boundaries are very important for your and their mental well-being.

You wouldn't want to share what happened in your marriage to them all the time.
At the same time if your kid starts walking for the first time, thats a news to be shared.

What to share when that maturity comes with time. I learnt that the hard way.

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