Thoughts on dating East Asians?

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

I recently went from having an incredibly open and intimate long-term relationship with a person I was certain I was going to marry… to now getting asked “what’s your favorite color” on a first date. Godddd I hate dating sometimes

Gay men think having a muscular body makes up for a mediocre career, lack of emotional or intellectual depth, and think they can pull dudes that have it all. Think again scrub 😌

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

If you aren’t straight, was there a public figure that made you realize this? My first memorable girl crush was Nigella Lawson, a British celebrity chef nearly twice my age.

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

After watching Arpana and her attitude in Indian Matchmaking, purani kahawaat yaad aagayi...
“ Na shakal na *^*^* Aur nakhre unchi unchi”

I’m talking to THE nicest woman, but I’m not sexually attracted to her 😭

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

Only came here to type that am a woman looking for a relationship
Quiet, well-manered, healthy life-style
Love to stay home, not a party person
Independent and candid
I do not Ghost or string Long.

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Best dating app for india.?. Sick of being single in wfh

Thinking this is the year i iA find someone, prayers for all of us single 🐟 wanting to take that next step!

Met a guy thru a mutual friends. Our first date was a day trip together. He couldnt come to a group event this week bc of work but I ended up to his house to hookup after (my idea). He hasnt texted me about meeting up this weekend...do you think i should text him? Getting feelings for him and worried i should back off before getting hurt.

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

30M, Fit, Indian, I am here to avoid arranged marriage and I don’t like dating apps :)

Should people wait till marriage to be intimate? If so, when should they get married? If not, when would it be acceptable?

What is the starting salary of an employee in legal team in pwc.

Am I the only one in the office today, the day before Thanksgiving, just to ensure that the Partners, who will not be here, see me??????

Thinking this is the year i iA find someone, prayers for all of us single 🐟 wanting to take that next step!

Met a guy thru a mutual friends. Our first date was a day trip together. He couldnt come to a group event this week bc of work but I ended up to his house to hookup after (my idea). He hasnt texted me about meeting up this weekend...do you think i should text him? Getting feelings for him and worried i should back off before getting hurt.

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Has anyone heard of Enaxis Consulting? Reached out by recruiter and wanted to know what this community thinks before my conversation with them

Which company should I join, Mindtree or Persistent as a Java developer with 8 years of experience?

About to do my first interview for an in house job (coming from a midsize firm).
What are some questions typically asked, and good answers to those questions?
What are some good questions to ask?

If an otherwise good interview the interviewer says: “I think you have great experience that will help you wherever you go”. Should I be reading into this?

My bf has asked me to help him quit the ecigs and told me he’ll probably hide them from me but he wants me to take them. So I have for the past week. He really only keeps them in his pocket, 1 drawer

Looking for advice on some resources or suggestions on how to start with programming for GPUs. I am 7 years into coding and I don’t know a thing about GPUs! I don’t know why this subject is not taught in schools.
Appreciate your support in helping me learn!

Anyone maxing out their H1 at Deloitte? What option of the two did you choose:
USI localization or Relocation to Canada? What are pros and cons

Does anyone aware if there will be a problem in getting i140 approved on EB3 if I am having 3 year degree as education qualification.

I got offers from top consulting firms in Berlin and Amsterdam. Any ideas what factors to consider in my decision?

Anyone jump from consulting to sales? Mind blown by some of the salaries I've heard. Generally, I have a negative view on sales, just from the slimy salesmen I've dealt with in the past, but I can be wrong. Interested to hear if you've made the jump

I saw 2 posts earlier about the show "Ultimatum" on Netflix. Can't pass up trashy TV and started watching. Just finished episode 3 and loving it! Considering cancelling tonight's plans so that I can binge the rest of the season before bed.

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WTF was with Nate's proposal?

What are you hearing about Accenture and PIP? Lay offs?

Does anyone interested in interior designing as a side hustle to help decor a home? Please DM me.

How are fellow desi single fish spending Christmas?

Anyone in the Bay Area? M here

Now is a good time to wish MC to people who wish you HBD on your birthday. What do these people do with the time they save wishing someone?

Any Fishes in Bay Area? M here

Anyone wanna FaceTime ?

Did anyone meet people through this bowl?

Any ladies want to chat? 25M here, in the Northeast but location flexible.

26 F Gujarati, looking for someone in Chicago!

IBD came to states at 8. My cousins back home are getting arrange married. My parents are starting to pressure me and pity me. But I have no interest in following a "timeline" and am pretty ambivalent when it comes to kids. I already have a SO and do not see a reason to tie the knot just because other people my age are. Anyone else getting pressured and its getting annoying?

Any F in the Dallas area looking for casual dating options?

28M Sikh in LI/NYC area, looking to make any friends!

Any gyals in Toronto?

Hi Friends planning to organize weekend evening gathering in Naperville suburbs. Let me know who is interested

Desi folks! Why do you let your parents manage your profile on the websites? It’s so uncomfortable when you get a call at 4 am saying “beta, we like your profile.” 🤷🏽‍♂️

Anyone around Columbus area want to hangout?

I wish I had someone to cuddle with in this beautiful white weather! 😢 (for context: 29M)

Why is this group so dead??
Something wrong with our Desi mentality ?
I am sure most of the people are single here, still it’s too empty and dull, what’s wrong with us 😂😂

I am 39 F. Based in US. Looking for a person over age 39 and living in US - any state. If you are looking for a match let's connect.

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!