Unpopular opinion: I don't believe in "hustle culture." I think sustainable work-life balance is key to long-term success. Am I delusional?

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This really depends on your definition of “success.” I don’t think people get to the top of any field and keep work-life balance. Most successful entrepreneurs don’t either. Normally the people I see who have this have a spouse/partner that makes significantly more so they can’t take it easy as far as working or having their own business, have family money or trust fund or inheritance, don’t have aspirations to be in a leadership position in a company or organization, or live in countries like those in Europe where the culture prioritizes work life balance. In the U.S., this is not the case and the system here is not set up for work life balance for most people.

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